In a lengthy Hadith Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) described a scene in the Divine Court on the Day of Qiyaamah. A woman who will be ushered into the Divine Presence, will be asked about her neglect of Salaat (and also about her other violations of the Shariah). This woman will say in her defence that her obligations to her husband and children, and her household duties did no permit her the time to regularly perform Salaat. She will also present the excuse of her husband’s foul temper which had instilled fear in her. She was therefore constrained to be at his beck and call, hence she was unable to fulfil her Deeni obligations. Allah Ta’ala will then command that Hadhrat Aasiyyah (rahmatullah alayha) be ushered into His Presence. It will then be said to the woman. “Was your husband a greater oppressor and worse than her husband, Fir’oun?” The woman will reply: “O Allah! No one was a greater oppressor and more evil than Fir’oun.” It will then be said to this woman: “Despite Aasiyyah having been the wife of such a cruel and evil tyrant, she was never neglectful of her ibaadat nor forgetful for a moment of Allah’s remembrance. If the oppression of any husband could have prevented any wife from Salaat and her Deeni obligations, then most certainly, Aasiyyah would have been prevented. O woman! The excuse of your husband is baseless. You, of your own accord was neglectful of the Deen. You did not fear My punishment, hence you disobeyed My commands, and rebelled against the teachings of My Rasool. Today you shall taste of My chastisement.” Allah, Rabbul Aalameen will then command the Angels to cast her into Jahannum. May Allah Ta’ala save us from such disaster. Wives should understand that the first allegiance of every Muslim is to Allah Ta’ala, not to the husband. Furthermore, in almost all cases, the excuse of the husband is a smokescreen presented to deceive others and to perpetrate self-deception. Obedience to the husband in any act which results in disobedience to Allah Ta’ala is haraam. While the wife is required to fulfil her obligations to her husband, it is strictly prohibited for her to present the excuse of her husband’s orders and wishes to justify her commission of haraam. In fact, if her husband intransigently requires her to disobey Allah Ta’ala, she should opt for separation, leave the marital home and take refuge in the home of her parents. On the Day of Qiyaamah, the lame excuses tendered in selfdefence and in justification of sins will not avail.
What is the Shariah’s view regarding “women’s-led weddings”? Is it permissible for a woman to officiate at a Muslim Nikah ceremony? She also recites the Nikah khutbah and conducts the ceremony in the same way as an Imaam does? Please comment in detail on this new development.
ANSWER AND COMMENT
Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Never ever will prosper the affair of people who entrust their affair to a woman.”
“Relegate them (women) to the background as Allah has relegated them into the background.”
When it is haraam for a woman to recite audibly even the Qiraa’t during Salaat even in privacy, by what stretch on intelligent logic and Shar’i comprehension will it ever be permissible for her to recite audibly a nikah khutbah and have it broadcast for all the kuffaar, fussaaq and fujjaar of the world to hear? When it is haraam for her to recite even the Talbiyah audibly, how can it ever be halaal for her to recite a khutbah audibly for an audience consisting of a variety of devils?
The issue of a stupid woman stupidly ‘officiating’ at a Nikah ceremony is not of technical or academic concern. It is related to the practical domain of the Shariah – to the Sunnah of Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) and the Salafus Saaliheen. It is an issue which has to be viewed in the light of the Sunnah practice of the Ummah – the Practice inherited from the Sahaabah (Radhiyallahu anhum) who were the first and the chief proponents and exponents of the Sunnah. And, obedience to the Sunnah is Waajib by the Command of Allah Azza Wa Jal repeatedly mentioned in the Qur’aan Majeed: “Obey (and follow) Allah and His Rasool.” This is the recurring theme which permeates the entire Qur’aan Majeed.
Any practice which is in conflict or in negation with the standard Sunnah is a satanic act stemming from the emporium of Kufr operated by the zanaadqah and the munaafiqeen who masquerade as Muslims. While these munaafiq modernists set themselves up as exponents of the Shariah, and proponents of the Deen, they are bankrupt in every equipage necessary for the validity of even Imaan.
Every Muslim with even the intelligence of a chicken can readily comprehend that a Nikah conducted by a woman is in diametric conflict with the Sunnah and as such stands condemned and haraam in the Eyes of the Shariah. There is absolutely no scope for this kufr accretion in Islam. Never was there such a kufr practice in Islam from its very inception. Did the greatest female Aalimah, Hadhrat Aishah (Radhiyallahu anha) ever encroach on this issue which belongs exclusively to the male domain?
This new, stupid, kuffaar-emulated practice has no relationship with Islam. It is a haraam innovation. This type of ‘wedding’ is not permissible. A couple who has suffered the satanic calamity and misfortune of having been duped into this shaitaani bid’ah should have a proper Shar’i Nikah performed.
Only women who are lesbians or confirmed prostitutes can possess the shaitaani temerity of ‘officiating’ a nikah ceremony. This office is designed divinely exclusively for males. A nikah at which a lesbian-type woman officiates is Mal-oon (Accursed).
Also comment on a ‘recent trend’ of women preferring to represent themselves at their wedding ceremonies instead of being represented by their Walis (Male Representatives, e.g. father, brother, etc.). Is this trend permissible?
This is another haraam trend. Firstly, even technically and in terms of Islamic Legality, such a marriage is not valid according to THREE of the four official Math-habs of the Sunnah, viz., Maaliki, Shaafi and Hambali. Although in terms of the Hanafi Math-hab, there is slight leeway for legal validity, it is HARAAM for a woman to bypass her male Wali and arrange for her own nikah. Thus, there is Ijma’ (Consensus) of all Math-habs, and of even deviate groups such as the Salafis, that such a nikah is HARAAM.
Again, only women whose modesty has been rent apart, who in all probability are no longer virgin due to fornication, who will have such satanic brazenness to arrange for their own marriages – to represent themselves in 100% denial of the Law of the Wali ordained by Allah Azza Wa Jal.
These lewd women are just like the Carrion Cartel such as SANHA and MJC who maintain that their certified carrion chickens and carrion meat are ‘halaal’ despite their entire killing system, packing system and mock supervisory system being haraam from A to Z. Despite the entire system being 100% In conflict with the Shariah and emphatically Haraam, these vile carrion purveyors dupe the public into the capital LIE that their meat and chicken products are ‘halaal’. In like manner are these immoral women and their Munaafiq male handlers who goad them on to perpetrate haraam and ruin their morality, their Imaan and their Aakhirat. Despite their shaitaani perpetrations being brazenly and flagrantly HARAAM, they seek legal mirages to cloak their haraam acts with a vestige of permissibility.
A modernist says that although Islam requires spouses to marry with a contract, this is neglected in the Muslim community. Is this claim Islamically valid?
The claim is a satanic invalidity. The chap who ventured this stupidity is undoubtedly a zindeeq, a munaafiq and a murtad. Islam does not require what the zindeeq moron alleges. While a contract is permissible, it is not a requisite of the Nikah nor is it a Sunnah practice. It is an isolated act which never was encouraged by the Sunnah.
The claimant is most probably a supporter of the lesbian women’s lib. movement, hence he has made this preposterous claim. The Islamic practice of more than fourteen centuries rejects this stupid notion of the lesbians and the zindeeq male handlers of these immodest women who are in entirety lacking in haya (shame and modesty) about which Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: “Haya is a branch of Imaan.”
These lesbian-orientated semi-women are so shameless that they advertise their zina relationship on the internet for all and sundry to see and know. They are not Muslims. They are such kuffaar who are worse than even Iblees himself, and their male handlers are even worse.
Epistasis and infusoria of this filthy, kufr type will be on the increase. Lewdness and immorality are integral to the introductory stage of Qiyaamah. According to the Hadith such satanically immoral specimens of humanity will still be literally transfigured into apes and pigs. The first stage of this process is the transformation of the hearts and brains. The hearts and brains of these immoral epistasis specimens of the human race have already been figuratively transformed into the brains and hearts of pigs and apes. The literal or physical transformation and disfigurement are yet to occur on the doorstep of Qiyaamah.
Nuqs fil Aql (intellectual deficiency) if coupled with lack of genuine khauf (fear) for Allah Ta’ala renders females extremely vulnerable preys for the concupiscent lusts of men. They become even more vulnerable when they repose trust on those who are supposed to be seniors and men of piety. Women should not befool themselves with the imaginary piety of a Maulana or Shaikh. His piety will evaporate if he relaxes his guard – the guard which Allah Ta’ala commands him to always adopt. The Ta’leemaat of the Qur’aan and Ahaadith have to be implemented in every detail. If not, no one is then safe from the predatory onslaught of the nafs and the traps of shaitaan. Women should beware and exercise extreme caution with molvis and shaikhs. In today’s era these so-called ‘scholars’ are no different from modernist fussaaq and kuffaar. Their long kurtahs and beards are deceptive outer façades which serve to trap unsuspecting, stupid women. We are aware of numerous cases of sexual misdemeanors between molvis and wives of others; between molvis and the female students they teach in these wretched girls madrasahs; between ‘khanqaah’ shaikhs and female mureeds. In this era, a woman should NOT think of becoming bay’t to a sheikh. All ‘shaikhs’ of this era are scoundrels and bogus. Don’t ever trust them. Don’t trust the molvis! Don’t trust anyone! And this applies to ourselves as well. Don’t trust us! Don’t trust even the intervening screen which the dacoits put up in girls madrasahs between themselves and their female students. These screens are there for deluding and deceiving. These screens are not adequate purdah. These screens are stupid. Molvis who teach girls should hang their heads with shame. They are a disgraceful lot of deceits. They are liars if they claim that their nafs is not incited when they teach giggling girls and hear their voices from behind the mock purdah screen. The shahwat is ghaalib. Don’t be trusting like the 30 year old lady whom we dubbed ‘vixen’. In reality she is not a ‘vixen’. She was entrapped into the tentacles of a senior Maulana who was supposed to know better. She was perhaps genuinely ‘overwhelmed by his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa’, hence lost her balance and became ensnared. But this evil Maulana misused his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa to derail a pure woman – to rob her of her paakdamani (moral purity). Therefore, never trust these scoundrels. Islaah (reformation) of the nafs is waajib at all times. But in this era it cannot be achieved from the company of these scoundrel Satanists who pose as ‘sufis’. The Mashaaikh say that when there is no true, genuine, Allah-Fearing Shaikh available, then hold on to the kitaabs of the Auliya. Read the life episodes and advices of the Auliya. Insha-Allah, you will gain the requisite Islaah of the Nafs to endear you to Allah Ta’ala. Don’t fall into the traps of these bogus shaikhs and concupiscent molvis. Don’t be deluded by their sweet talk, calling you ‘Bhen! Bhen! (Sister! Sister!)’. They are hypocrites and human devils who lure and seduce women under ‘deeni’ cover. They are wolves in sheep’s skin. Our advice to Sisters who communicate with Ulama is to do so only by e-mail or letter, never by phone. We maintain with emphasis that today it is haraam for a woman to speak to a man even on the phone, and it is haraam for her to speak to a man from even behind a screen. This is an age of the worst kind of fitnah. Also, do not communicate with just any molvi, especially if he is a so-called ‘celebrity’. And, NEVER commit the fatal moral blunder of seeking advice or deeni mas’alah from a facebook molvi. All facebook molvis are filth. With huge hyperbole in their hypocritical ‘bayaans’ they create red herrings which the stupid women swallow hook, line and sinker. Wallah! We believe that there is no worse rapist of female morals than a facebook molvi. Your Haya and Imaan are invaluable treasures. Do not sully these treasures. Do not blemish this Amaanat with the concupiscent filth of these facebook molvis. They are absolute Rubbish. In the words of Rasulullah ( Sallallahu alayhi wasallam): “The Saalihoon (the genuine pious Ulama) are departing (from this dunya) one after the other in quick succession. Then will remain only ghutha (RUBBISH) like the chaff of dates or barley. Allah will have no care whatsoever for them.” We are in that age. There are no longer Saalihoon living. They all are under the earth in their graves. There now remain only RUBBISH. Don’t trust anyone! Don’t trust molvis! Don’t trust shaikhs! And, don’t trust us. Just take what we say in our writings. You will not find it anywhere in today’s world. May Allah be with you all. Was-salaam.
QUESTION I am the uncle of a lady involved or was involved in a love saga with a Maulana. The Maulana is a well known pious figure in the community, and he is my close friend. The lady is about 30 years old and the Maulana about 50 years. Both are married and have children. The husband of the lady is a close friend of the Maulana. He always seeks advice from the Maulana. He has implicit trust and confidence in his friend, the Maulana. Whenever the Maulana comes to the town where the lady lives with her husband, he (the husband) is the host at whose home the Maulana stays for the duration of his visit. Every morning the husband leaves to attend to his business. Sometimes the Maulana is alone at home with only the lady present, the children also having left for school. In this scenario, a relationship developed between the Maulana and the lady (my niece). They developed a strong mutual love. Everything except actual zina was committed. After some time, a couple of years, the Maulana came to his senses, and I believe the lady as well. They have realized the evil of their relationship, have made Taubah and are very remorseful. No one besides myself and of course, Allah Ta’ala, is aware of this sordid saga. I told both that in my opinion, their Taubah is not sufficient to atone for their conduct. The evil is of such a nature that it requires more than Taubah. Am I right? Both have presented some excuse for their evil conduct. The Maulana says that it was in a moment of weakness that he succumbed to his nafs; that he did not plan to develop a relationship with his friend’s wife. It was never even in his dreams. He therefore feels confident of having been forgiven by Allah Ta’ala. He has also profusely apologized to the lady via myself. The lady contends that she was young at the age of 30 and she simply became infatuated with the Maulana who was 20 years senior to her. Her excuse, in her own words: “As a young lady I was totally overwhelmed by the Taqwa, knowledge and wisdom of the middle-aged man, and simply fell in love. This led to my treacherous, erratic and out-of character behaviour.” Both are persons of the Deen. Are their excuses valid? What else should they do besides Taubah to expiate for their very evil conduct and haraam relationship. Please comment and offer us advice which will benefit others as well. I might add, that numerous people are involved in similar and worse haraam sagas. Jazaakallah!
ANSWER AND NASEEHAT At the outset, in order to contain the explosion in us, and to avoid being judgmental – judgement which in our emotional opinion demands the assignment of this absolutely disgusting treacherous couple to everlastingly burn in Hell Fire, our brains constrain us to mellow our disgust and wrath with the following Aayat of Allah Ta’ala: “Say (O Muhammad!) to My servants who have oppressed their souls that they should not despair of the Rahmat (Mercy) of Allah, for verily, He forgives all sins. Verily, He is the OftForgiver, The Most Merciful.”
Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said that no matter how numerous and how great the sins committed may be, Allah Ta’ala forgives the sincere repenters. Therefore, even if the sins are as numerous as the bubbles on the ocean and as huge as the Himalayan mountains, the remorse in the heart wipes out all these sins even before the verbal Taubah has been made. The soul of Taubah is regret in the broken heart of the sinner, i.e. if his heart is truly broken by the absolute villainy and notoriety of the callous, treacherous and unforgivable misdeed perpetrated. ‘Unforgivable from our perspective, not from the perspective of Allah Who is Ghafoor and Raheem – Whose mercy and ghaffaariyat are boundless and always available to the sinners. But this does not and should not detract us from the reality and notoriety of the misdeed. Allah’s boundless Rahmat is never a license for adopting a lackadaisical attitude towards sin in general and in particular towards the disgusting treachery committed by this devil Maulana and this vixen, traitorous woman. This Maulana has cruelly, deceitfully and most treacherously stabbed his friend in the back, seduced his wife and deracinated from his heart and brains the ‘knowledge’, ‘wisdom’ and ‘taqwa’ which this vixen had imagined, and presents as an excuse for her infidelity. Her presentation is a trick of her nafs to minimize the villainy of her treachery. The excuses of both are totally invalid. Their excuses are being presented to soothe their own conscience which rebels against their treacherous conduct, and to minimize the utter villainy and disgust of their treachery. This attitude – their subconscious minimizing of the gravity of their notoriety – is a dangerous trap of shaitaan to pollute their Taubah. Taubah, according to the Qur’aan must be Taubah Nasooh, i.e. a Repentance raised on the bed of raw Ikhlaas (Sincerity and Remorse). They should not present even the slightest vestige of cover or minimization of their absolutely unacceptable treachery. Just imagine! A trusting friend – a loving and caring husband is brutally stabbed in his back by his ‘trusted’ Maulana friend and his ‘faithful’ wife for whom he labours and loves so dearly. This ‘friend’ is a dacoit, a fraud, a deceit of the most treacherous kind, and this ‘faithful’ wife is an immoral vixen. Both should drown themselves in the cesspool of inequity and treachery which they have prepared for themselves. We wonder if after this treacherous brutality, did this Maulana ever have the guts to look his friend in the face? Did this treacherous woman ever have the guts to look her husband straight in the face? If yes, it indicates that they have not understood the absolute disgust of their treachery. They are banking on their Taubah. They should remember that they are dealing with a Being Who does not forget – with Allah Azza Wa Jal. Tomorrow is the Day of Qiyaamah. If Allah Ta’ala has not accepted their Taubah, they will stand there in the multitudes in the Divine Court facing the Friend/Husband. This miserable couple should ponder, in fact, meditate – engage in Muraaqabah – on that scene which could transpire on the Day of Qiyaamah. We reiterate that Allah Ta’ala is All-Forgiving and All Merciful. The Doors of Taubah never close. But the Taubah must be genuine. From the excuses proffered we discern deficiency in their Taubah. They must renew their Taubah afresh. They must refrain from presenting straws of extenuation. They must fully, fully realize their villainy and understand that they are rotten inside and outside – rotten to the core. Then with this attitude should they drown themselves in tears and cry their hearts out seeking forgiveness from Allah Ta’ala. It took the Maulana extremely long to come to his senses. If the relationship was perpetuated for years, the gravity of the villainy and treachery is multiplied manifold. The Maulana’s excuse of having succumbed in a moment of weakness to his nafs is false. The perpetuation of the haraam affair for years was not enacted in a “moment of weakness”. The continued affair has all the paraphernalia of plan and contemplation which are aggravating factors to damn and condemn the Maulana. Remaining at home alone with the lady is also indicative of planning. What happened to his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa? He is not ignorant of the Hadith Warning: “Never ever be alone with a woman, for verily the third one present is shaitaan”. His knowledge, wisdom and taqwa should have dictated that he should never have cast himself into such a dangerous combustible situation. A man and woman alone, especially when they were no longer strangers, are the ingredients for a sudden flare-up of the nafs. Did his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa not remind him that Allah Ta’ala says in the Qur’aan Majeed: “Do not approach near to zina.” But here this Maulana threw all of these Qur’aanic and Hadith warnings out of the window. The knowledge, wisdom and taqwa which do not protect a man in such combustible situations are fake. Our Mashaaikh say: “Verily, Allah loves a penetrating gaze when doubt settles on a person, and He loves a kaamil (perfect) aql (intelligence) when lust devours him.” In such dangerous situations, if the intelligence is employed to restrain and subdue the nafs, then it will be a kaamil aql, and the struggle will be more meritorious than the struggle in the physical battlefield. For a man who utilizes his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa to maintain the purity of his body, mind and heart, i.e. overwhelm his nafs by beating down his concupiscent desires to prevent himself from indulgence in haraam, Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) presented the following glad tidings: “He who falls in love (with a woman), and remains pure (in body and mind), then dies, verily he has become a Shaheed.” As for the vixen: her claim of being a ‘young woman overwhelmed’ by the moron Maulana’s imaginary integrity, is utterly baseless. She was at that stage a mature woman of 30, a mother of children, and she had a loving caring husband to attend to her desires, yet she betrayed him in such a cruel manner. Does she not know that from the age of buloogh – the age of 15 or even before – the person is an adult in Islam and is held liable by Allah Ta’ala for his/her deeds? Does she think that she is absolved of punishment for her misdeeds because of her age of 30? Does she not know that she can be stoned to death for adultery regardless of being 30 or 15? In fact, the enormity and villainy of the crime of this wicked Maulana and this vixen lady are of such egregious proportions that they should believe that they are fit for Rajm (Stoning to Death). With such a sincere attitude totally bereft of any vestige of self-vindication, they can have much hope in Allah’s Infinite Mercy and that they are or will be forgiven. What a silly, self-deceptive excuse is this “30 year old young lady” story? The lady should not delude herself with self-complacency to later find, on the Day of Qiyaamah, her treachery around her neck like a dead albatross for all and sundry to behold. Both of them should feel themselves to be dirty – filthy. The attainment of purity from their filth is no easy task. It requires repeated Taubah and self imposition of penances. But then too, effacement from memory of the treachery is well nigh impossible. Only Allah Ta’ala can help in this situation. The Maulana’s apology to the lady is stupid and baseless bunkum. What is there to apologize to her when she is the co-partner in the wickedness. Forgiveness must be sought from only Allah Ta’ala. We fail to understand this stupid concept of apology to the one with whom adultery was committed. Both are zaanis (adulterers) in the crime. They have no option other than to repeatedly renew their Taubah. A scrambled egg cannot be unscrambled. The damage is done. Now remains only regret, Istighfaar, hope and struggling to gain greater proximity to Allah Ta’ala. This is what particularly the Maulana should do, using his knowledge, wisdom and taqwa, and the lady should simply drench her musalla with tears of blood. May Allah Ta’ala have mercy on both and on us all. No one is safe from the enemy- nafs and shaitaan. Our castigation is not from a pedestal. It is not to make them despair of Allah’s mercy. It is to jolt them into realizing what they have perpetrated. It is clear to us that they have as yet not fully understood the villainy of their treachery. Their self-diagnosis is wholly deficient, and this contaminates their Taubah. Again we say that it is not contempt which underlies our reprimand. The one who offers naseehat from a high pedestal is worse than this treacherous couple. He is a veritable shaitaan giving vent to his takabbur. The naasih who proffers advice should always bear in mind what Hadhrat Nabi Yusuf (Alayhis salaam) said: “I do not proclaim my nafs to be pure, for verily, the nafs is a great commander of evil except the one on whom Allah has mercy.” (Qur’aan) Our harshness is only to jolt the two miscreants. It is for their own goodness in this dunya and the Aakhirah. If they misconstrue it, the consequences for them on the Day of Qiyaamah are too ghastly to contemplate. May Allah Ta’ala forgive us all and save us from the evil of our nafs and the snares of Iblees.
Why do some modern women look down on being a housewife or stay-at-home mom?
Because they actually have no clue what the job entails.
We understand that in order to do a specific job, you have to be trained for it. You go through some kind of education, a practice or apprenticeship period, in order to be prepared for the job and fit to perform it well.
To be a doctor, we know we need to go to medical school. To be a lawyer, we need to go to law school. To be a teacher, we need to go to a school of education.
To be a housewife and a stay-at-home mother, where do we go to learn?
What does it take to run a smooth household? What does good home management involve? Are there best practices? How should the day be set up for maximum productivity and optimal performance?
Most of us went to school during the day, for most of the day. We left home at 7 am and got home from school at 3 or 4 pm. If we had a stay-at-home mom, we didn’t get to see what exactly she did all day during the time we were gone at school. We don’t know if she had a schedule or what it looked like.
Since we didn’t witness it, some of us assume that there is really nothing to it. Maybe she just sat around all day or took a long nap. Maybe the house runs itself. The family takes care of itself. Stuff kind of just happens. Ignorance is bliss.
Then as these high schoolers grew up and graduated from college, the questions began surfacing: What should be my (career) path? What should I invest the majority of my time, energy, effort, and intelligence into? Should I be a housewife? When I have kids, should I be a stay-at-home mom?
What would I even *do* all day?
Their minds draw a blank.
Many modern girls and women just really don’t know. And we don’t respect what we don’t know.
When I was in middle school in public school in New Jersey, we were assigned a Home Economics class for a semester. I remember some of the things the teacher, Mrs. Wentworth, taught us: how to sew on a button, how to bake cinnamon rolls, how to iron a shirt. I was around 12 or 13 years old when I took that class. It was fun and very practical.
Nowadays most, if not all, American schools have removed all Home Economics classes from the curriculum. Nobody is teaching kids the basics of life skills, how to do basic things in the home, how to cook or clean or organize or create.
So we aren’t getting this essential knowledge at home by watching our mothers work around the home, and we aren’t getting it in classes at school, either. Add in feminist propaganda about marriage being slavery and serving a husband being degradation, and most modern women feel like they wouldn’t be caught dead staying home.
This results in a general ignorance of the details of running a smooth household successfully. Which leads to a knee-jerk hand-waving dismissal altogether of the role of a wife and/ or mother who stays home and manages life for the family.
So. What does that role actually entail?
عن عبد الله بن عمر رضي الله عنهما عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: “أَلَا كُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ، وَكُلُّكُمْ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ، فَالْأَمِيرُ الَّذِي عَلَى النَّاسِ رَاعٍ، وَهُوَ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ، وَالرَّجُلُ رَاعٍ عَلَى أَهْلِ بَيْتِهِ، وَهُوَ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْهُمْ، وَالْمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ عَلَى بَيْتِ بَعْلِهَا وَوَلَدِهِ، وَهِيَ مَسْئُولَةٌ عَنْهُمْ…”
Abdullah ibn Umar narrates that the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
“Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. A ruler who rules over people is a shepherd and is responsible for them. The man is a shepherd over his family and is responsible for them. The woman is a shepherd over her husband’s home and children and is responsible for them…”
The housewife’s role revolves around three main areas: her husband, her children, and the home.
Her role involves a lot of responsibility, intelligence, adaptability, creativity, and discipline. The housewife wears many hats, out of love for her family.
Running a smooth home is much, much more than simple cooking and cleaning, but certainly cooking and cleaning are important tasks. The meals that you and your family will eat every day don’t cook themselves. Eating out or ordering in every night is expensive and is not the healthiest option either. Most human beings communicate love through offering food, a reality borne out across cultures, as anthropologists show. People tend to have warm, fond memories of hot, homemade meals cooked with love.
Keeping a house clean, organized, and tidy is actually quite a lot of work and requires constant maintenance. Organizing things in each room of the house in an intuitive, user-friendly way is another task. Laundry is a multi-step process. Errands don’t run themselves: meal planning, buying groceries, and other runs have to be made. Adding tasteful decor and accent pieces adds beauty and warmth, a feminine touch that makes a cold bare house a cozy home.
Beyond these basic responsibilities, the woman of the house creates a smooth rhythm and is adept at multitasking. She systematizes everything so that things run like clockwork. It’s not about doing laundry once, or going grocery shopping haphazardly, or cooking at random times. These tasks are all cyclical, and with time and experience, the housewife will finesse these processes and order them logically for maximum time management and efficiency. She will set up a system for doing laundry, a system for daily tidying plus weekly/ monthly deep cleaning, a schedule for grocery shopping and for cooking, a toy storage and rotation system. Children’s clothing has its own system, sorted and stored by size and season. These are just some examples of intelligent homemaking systems.
She also oversees family life generally, managing the coordination of the family’s routine, schedule, and calendar. Which events conflict with which? What are the kids’ activities? She syncs the calendars for her own activities, the kids’, and her husband’s.
She supports her husband, inspires him, and sees to his comfort and pleasure. She has a feminine energy, an agreeable nature, an attitude of love and respect for her man. She sees his value as her husband and shows him the respect he is due. She understands what it takes to sustain a stable long-term relationship–a marriage– and is willing to put in that work. She finds little and big ways to show him appreciation for the hard work he puts in for her and the family. (In a healthy marriage, she gets this back too. Everything is reciprocal.)
She nurtures her children and provides them with tarbiya, inculcating Islamic values, building character, and establishing a solid foundation of unconditional love. She gives kisses, hugs, smiles, pats the boo-boos and wipes away the tears. She talks to the children about Allah, His Messenger ﷺ, and shows them the beauty of Islam from a place of love. She teaches them responsibility, hard work, and fair play. She provides her offspring with the healthy attachments and orientation they need for sound emotional, physical, and psychological development. She is their first teacher.
If she is a homeschooling mother, she continues this tarbiya of her children as it naturally extends into more formal education, teaching them about the world through the lens of Islam, the natural correlation between the Words of Allah and His creation all around us, plus the mechanics of reading, writing, and arithmetic. She nurtures their natural curiosity and wonder.
She is the rock of the family, the grounding and stabilizing force that holds down the fort. She is the warmth of the home, its beauty, its feminine strength. She is the glue that holds everything and everyone together.
Now, here is the disclaimer lest people misunderstand this to be a categorical condemnation of all women who do not fit this picture: It’s not. This is simply a reminder to all of us that our notions of what homemaking is are generally flawed, unfair, and inaccurate.
Of course, some women never get married, either by choice or by circumstance. Of course, some women get married but never have children, either by choice or by circumstance. Of course, some women are wives and mothers but work outside the home because they need to for a large array of reasons (widowed, divorced, separated, sick husband, high cost of living and need to pay rent, etc). Some women are able to prioritize family, home, and children while at the same time pursuing a part-time online degree or certificate or working online or starting their own home-based business as an entrepreneur or doing da`wah. These are all different realities on the ground. No doubt.
But as it pertains to subconscious *mental images* that we have, to our *aspirations to certain ideals*, to our *conceptions* of various ideas, we need to get some things straight:
Having an advanced degree just to have a degree is not an ideal we should aspire to.
Having a career just to have a career isn’t, either.
Our worth as women doesn’t stem from how many degrees we have or how much money we bring in or how many letters follow our name as our professional title.
Failing to understand the role of the wife/ mother and therefore under-prioritizing it isn’t good for anyone. Seeing the housewife as a slave is crazy. So is believing the tired stereotype of the housewife as a lazy, unproductive woman who leeches off her husband and whiles away her days gossiping and watching soap operas.
Homemaking is not “slavery.”
Homemaking is not “domestic drudgery.”
Homemaking is not meaningless, mindless menial labor.
Misconceptions In today’s technologically advanced world, we see non-authoritative sources spreading Islamic legal verdicts (fatwas) for the general public who are none the wiser. With one ‘ping,’ misinformation can spread like wildfire and potentially mislead thousands of people. Listed below are common misconceptions regarding menstruation, followed by what Islam actually says about the matter.
Misconception 1: It is not permissible to trim/cut hair or nails while menstruating.
Busted: Whilst it is somewhat disliked (makruh tanzihi) to cut hair or nails in a state of major ritual impurity due to wet dreams, intercourse, etc. (janabah), there is no dislike in doing so during menstruation (hayd) or post-natal bleeding (nifas).
Misconception 2: It is not permissible to use a comb used by a menstruating woman.
Busted: This claim has absolutely no basis in the Islamic law (Shari’ah) and is in fact contrary to a narration mentioned in Sahih al-Bukhari. It is narrated on the authority of Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): “While in menses, I used to comb the hair of Allah’s Messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace)” (Sahih Muslim 244/1)
Misconception 3: It is not permissible to sit on a prayer mat while menstruating.
Busted: It is actually recommended (mustahabb) for a woman to perform ablution (wudu) and sit on her prayer mat while menstruating. She should recite other forms of supplications (adhkar e.g. praises and glorifications) for the duration it usually takes her to offer ritual prayer (salat). This will ensure she remains in the habit of worship, even during the days salat is not due on her. (Manhal al-Waridin p.267)
Misconception 4: You cannot wear the same clothes worn in menstruation after attaining purity.
Busted: They can be worn as long as the clothes have not been soiled by physical impurity.
*See ‘Removing Impurity‘ for further detail.
Misconception 5: Clothes worn in hayd must be washed separately.
Busted: If clothes have been soiled by impurity while menstruating, they are the same as clothes soiled by any other impurity. They do not need to be washed separately. However, it may be advisable to wash any light-coloured garments as soon as possible so the stain does not set in.
*See ‘Removing Impurity‘ for further detail.
Misconception 6: It is not permissible to apply henna in menstruation.
Busted: It is permitted to apply henna, whether on the hands, feet, or hair at any time.
Misconception 7: It is not permissible to take a bath while menstruating.
Busted: Islam advises us to stay clean at all times, and during hayd and nifas, one should make an extra effort to remain clean due to the bleeding that occurs. The Quran mentions, “Allah loves those who keep themselves pure” (Surat al-Tawbah 9:108).
Misconception 8: You cannot use water to clean the private parts when menstruating; it will affect your fertility.
Busted: This claim is completely baseless within the Shari’ah. Menstruating women should take extra care of their cleanliness to prevent the buildup of bacteria, odour, or physical impurity. Allah’s Messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “Cleanliness is half of faith” (Sahih Muslim 203/1).
Misconception 9: It is not permissible to take a bath after menstruation until pubic hair is removed.
Busted: It is compulsory to remove pubic hair on a weekly basis. Removing it is not a prerequisite to performing ritual bath (ghusl).
*See ‘Basic Hygiene Etiquette‘ for further detail.
Misconception 10: You must offer the prostration of recital (sajda tilawah) for a verse of prostration (sajda) heard during menstruation.
Busted: If a menstruating woman hears a verse of sajda from someone else, it is not necessary for her to offer sajda tilawat, even after she attains purity.
Misconception 11: You cannot leave your newborn during nifas.
Busted: There is nothing mentioned in Shari’ah to prohibit a woman from leaving her newborn during nifas.
Misconception 12: You cannot leave your house during nifas.
Busted: There is no specific ruling mentioned in Shari’ah that prohibits a woman from leaving her house during nifas.
Misconception 13: You cannot tell your father you are menstruating.
Busted: In many cultures, it is considered inappropriate or immodest for a girl to tell her father she is menstruating. From a young age, girls are discouraged from discussing emotional and physical changes they may be going through. If a young girl needs help from her father to purchase sanitary pads, she should feel comfortable asking him. Fathers are there to care for their families; it’s their job. Menstruation is a completely normal part of everyday life. A father will understand that, and would never want his daughter to feel too embarrassed by something so natural as menstruation that it prevents her from asking him for help. There is no problem if there is shyness from either or both parties, but when she needs help, she should be able to ask.
Misconception 14: You cannot write Qur’anic verses while menstruating.
Busted: It is unlawful to write a Qur’anic verse while menstruating, unless the writer creates a barrier between her hand and the paper she is writing on. A menstruating woman should place a tissue or another piece of paper under her writing hand, so that her hand does not touch the paper on which the Qur’an is written.
Misconception 15: Menstruating women must keep their distance from other members of their household.
Busted: Islam is a religion of moderation and walking a balanced path; unlike many other faiths, it does not cast out menstruating women as unclean or unhygienic. Women are not expected to physically distance themselves from members of their household, including their spouse. There is no religious basis that prevents them from using the same utensils or sleeping in the same bed, although restrictions for intimacy remain.
Trading her Imaan for the crumbs of the dunya, an estranged wife tendered the following proposal to her husband for terminating the marriage: (Our comments in bold in brackets) “I would like to inform you that I have sought legal advice and I am fully aware of what my legal rights are, so we have one of two options: We can legally divorce amicably or alternatively, we can take the matter to court. I would like to divorce amicably, but should you decide to take the route of the latter option, I have been informed that in terms of section 7 (3) of the Divorce Act, estates are to be divided in terms of the financial situations of the parties. (Taking the matter to the kuffaar court and seeking the kufr benefits of the kufr acts of law are haraam.) I was a homemaker for 17 y e a r s ( B e i n g a ‘homemaker’ was your Waajib obligation as demanded by the sacred Nikah contract. You had not bestowed any favour whatsoever to your husband by being a ‘homemaker’. You had only favoured yourself.) I have been left with nothing. (A person will have only whatever Allah Ta’ala has predestined for him/her. Your inordinate greed for haraam money and enlisting the kuffaar court to extort haraam from your husband is the evidence for the kufr in your heart.) You are a CA which shows the court that you CAN AFFORD maintenance. (After Talaaq, the man is responsible for your maintenance during the Iddat period if you are in the marital home. He will be responsible for the maintenance of his children in terms of the Shariah, not according to the exploitive decree of the kuffaar court.) However, regardless of what is going on between the two of us, I would like to maintain a level of respect because we share three children together. (There can be no level of ‘respect’ when you are pursuing the path of exploitation and extortion with the aid of the kuffaar court.) Please agree to the following proposal: 1. Please stop all communication through the children, please contact me timeously and directly through email or WhatsApp in future. It is affecting the children negatively and if you continue to do so, I will take the matter to children’s court. (You have absolutely no right to prevent the father from having communication with his children. If you are not an immoral woman, then while you will have the right of custody over the minor children, their father will remain the Guardian. You have no right to make any decisions regarding the children without the approval of the father. You are only the custodian, not the guardian. You have no right to dictate your stupid, haraam conditions.) 2. In terms of maintenance for the children, I would like R7500 per child per month, this is exclusive of school fees and medical aid, but inclusive of water, lights, rent, fuel, groceries, clothing, medical bills, entertainment, etc. (You cannot decide the maintenance amount. You are an exploiter, an extortionist and a contemptible gold-digger. An independent assessment must be made by responsible persons to decide what are the basic needs of the children. Maintenance will then be determined according to the Shariah not according to your lust, fulfilment of which you are seeking via the kuffaar court. Furthermore, if the father is averse to his children attending these immoral secular schools, you may not send them to their moral destruction, and you may not claim that he pays such haraam fees. It is the father’s right to decide on the expenses and the avenues of expenditure. You do not have such rights.) 3. Rehabilitation maintenance for myself, an amount of R5000 per month for two years. 4. A vehicle to transport the children, preferably the Audi, because that is the car I was using when we were living together. (If you are a drug addict, then get yourself rehabilitated at your own expense. Your ex-husband is not responsible for any type of rehabilitation expenses. Furthermore, he is responsible for expenses only for the Iddat period. Thereafter your male relatives have to maintain you, or if you are a lewd street woman, then go work and earn. Your demand for a vehicle is ludicrous. Your ex-husband’s stupidity of having provided you with a vehicle is now rebounding on him. Since he had aided you in sin by having provided you with a haraam car, he has now to suffer your haraam demand.) Please lemme know of your decision by Tuesday, 23rd February 2021 by no later than 1pm. If I have not received an answer by then. I will be left with no choice but to take the matter further. (Yes you are free to carve your pathway straight to Jahannam). Many women are purchasing kufr and ruining their Aakhirat for the sake of worldly carrion by enlisting the aid of the kuffaar courts to extort haraam money from their ex-husbands. This naseehat is only for such women who do have Imaan, but due to ignorance and misadvised by morons, they take the route of the kuffaar court to suck haraam money from their ex-husbands. Women who believe that they have Imaan should understand that according to the Shariah, the position is as follows: (1) The ex-wife is entitled to maintenance only for the Iddat period. Thereafter she ceases being the responsibility of her exhusband. (2) She is the custodian of the minor children. When a boy reaches 8 years, custody is transferred to the father, and when a girl is close to buloogh, the mother’s right of custody ends. (3) The father remains the Guardian. The mother has no right of making decisions for the children without the approval of the father. (4) The father has visitation rights at all times. A neutral venue should be arranged where he may visit his children. (5) It is the obligation of the father to maintain his children. The expenses (Continued on page 8) for the basic needs are his obligation although it is understood that he will spend more on his children within his means. But the mother may not demand money for expenditure for such activities which according to the Shariah are not permissible. (6) If the mother refuses to relinquish custody when her right has terminated, then the father will have the right to withhold maintenance from the children. The above is a brief summary of rights and obligations when a separation takes place. However, if the father is unfit or immoral, certain of his rights may be denied while some rights may be curtailed.
Allow me to speak my Arab tongue before they occupy my language as well. Allow me to speak my mother tongue before they colonise her memory as well. I am an Arab woman of color. and we come in all shades of anger. All my grandfather ever wanted to do was wake up at dawn and watch my grandmother kneel and pray in a village hidden between Jaffa and Haifa my mother was born under an olive tree on a soil they say is no longer mine but I will cross their barriers, their check points their damn apartheid walls and return to my homeland I am an Arab woman of colour and we come in all shades of anger. And did you hear my sister screaming yesterday as she gave birth at a check point with Israeli soldiers looking between her legs for their next demographic threat called her baby girl “Janeen”. And did you hear Amni Mona screaming behind their prison bars as they teargassed her cell “We’re returning to Palestine!” I am an Arab woman of colour and we come in all shades of anger. But you tell me, this womb inside me will only bring you your next terrorist beard wearing, gun waving, towelhead, sand nigger You tell me, I send my children out to die but those are your copters, your F16′s in our sky And let’s talk about this terrorism business for a second Wasn’t it the CIA that killed Allende and Lumumba and who trained Osama in the first place My grandparents didn’t run around like clowns with the white capes and the white hoods on their heads lynching black people I am an Arab woman of colour and we come in all shades of anger. “So who is that brown woman screaming in the demonstration?” Sorry, should I not scream? I forgot to be your every orientalist dream Jinnee in a bottle, belly dancer, harem girl, soft spoken Arab woman Yes master, no master. Thank you for the peanut butter sandwiches raining down on us from your F16′s master Yes my liberators are here to kill my children and call them “collateral damage” I am an Arab woman of colour and we come in all shades of anger. So let me just tell you this womb inside me will only bring you your next rebel She will have a rock in one hand and a Palestinian flag in the other I am an Arab woman of color Beware! Beware my anger…
A POEM BY A MUSLIM WOMAN REGARDING HER PALESTINIAN HOMELAND
PAKISTANI WALIAH CLOBBERS THE PAPSMEAR DOCTORS AND PAPSMEAR MUFTIS
Clobbering the papsmear doctor, the Waliah from Pakistan, in an open letter addressed to him says:
Doctor Moinuddin Ally!
I read your letter sent to Mufti A.S. Desai Saheb of The Majlis. As I don’t know how to write to you regarding your remarks on the shameful Papsmear Test, I am writing to you through the Majlis.
Doctor! how can you defend this vulgar and degrading test which you and other shameless doctors prescribe to Muslim ladies. Years ago when a lady doctor suggested that I have this test to rule out an imaginary cancer, I was so ashamed on hearing the details that I did not even have the nerve to repeat her words to my husband. Alhamdolillah! Allah Ta’ala saved me from this shameless test.
Leave alone all the fake “protocols” and other scientific proofs, I say with conviction that no Muslim doctor in his/her right mind will suggest such vulgarity to a Muslimah.
I have a small request to make to you, instead of prescribing the Papsmear Test (even the name causes nausea) and relating its obscene details, please give them the Hakeem Prescription which a Waliah asked me to take and by Allah Ta’ala’s greatest Fadhl I got complete Shifa. Its the easiest and simplest prescription ever.
Eat two medium sized ripe bananas first thing in the morning on an empty stomach and take a light breakfast forty minutes after this.
Eat two medium sized ripe bananas after Asr on an empty stomach and take a light dinner after Maghrib.
Recite Surah Fatiha (seven or three times) blow on water and drink this morning and night.
Do recommend this prescription, I assure you that you will, Insha-Allah, get 100% success rates, if ladies are consistent and regular in following it. They should follow it for at least two months.
Doctor Saheb, I know you will brush aside this prescription by saying there is no scientific proof behind it, so I ask you what proof do you have of the imaginary “Cervical Cancer”, on the basis of which you humiliate and degrade Muslimahs? Wassalam
(End of the Waliah’s letter)
About the Author of this letter: Her Mother is Siddiqah Hadhrat Aishah (Radhiyallahu anha). Her Grandfather is Hadhrat Siddique Abu Bakr (Radhiyallahu anhu), and her Father is Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam). May Allah Ta’ala reward this Waliah abundantly for her Amr Bil Ma’roof Nahy Anil Munkar.
Muftis with brains smeared with the filth of papsmear satanism have not only abandoned Amr Bil Ma’roof, they are in reality digging up the foundations of Islam with their zigzag papsmear convoluted ‘fatwas’ of misguidance. Allah Ta’ala is clobbering them with the Haqq Fatwas of uprighteous Ladies who belong to the Aristocracy of Islam such as this Honourable Lady.
As Naseehat for Muslims whose Imaan is still sound, we reproduce hereunder this noble Waliah’s recent very moving letter. Despite our awareness of the tantrum she will throw up when seeing her letter published, we deem it appropriate to share with others her very moving letter. We do so in contravention of her prohibition. The Majlis the Taaifah of Allah Azza Wa Jal, hence we need no one’s permission in the discharge of the obligation of Amr Bil Ma’roof Nahy Anil Munkar. Sister! Overlook the liberty we have taken. Your Naseehat is valuable advice for this Ummah.
The Waliah’s Letter (Comments in brackets are ours)
“Respected Mufti Saheb Assalamoalaikum
Just now as I was reciting Qur’an Paak. I was talking to Allah Ta’ala that when the time of my Maut comes, please send the most beautiful Malaaikah to take me to meet You and give them my Salaam.
Mufti Saheb for years it has been my most fervent yearning and begging dua that I breathe my last in Madinah Munawwarah and get a Noor filled Qabr in Baqi InshaAllah. After every Adhaan ka jawab (Response to the Athaan), I read the dua of Hadhrat Umer رضى الله عنه., and I am only telling you this that I also beg Allah Ta’ala to give me a Qabr near Ammi Ayesha’s رضى الله عنها Qabr. I don’t know whether its bai adbi (disrespect) or not but I love her very much. (No, it is not disrespectful Hadhrat Aishah Siddiqah – Radhiyallahu anha – is your Mother –The Majlis) I want to write her Manaqib (Virtues – Yes, do so. It may benefit the pro-Shiah scoundrels lurking in our community –The Majlis). I will, InshaAllah. I want to sing her praises. I love reading about her life with RasoolAllah صلى الله عليه وسلم. I love reading her life over and over again. (And so do we and all true Mu’mineen. Only Shiahs and the modernists with Shiah tendencies masquerading as Muslims hate and slander our Beloved Mother. These scoundrels here in South Africa slink in the community. They are known as the NNB Jamiat, MJC and similar other Munaafiq outfits whose eyes are set on Iranian dollars – The Majlis).
As for doing dua for you, I take your respected name and do dua. May Allah Ta’ala keep you with hifazat (protection) and aafiyat (safety). (Jazaakallaah! We do appreciate your sincere Duas for us. We are at your feet. You are our Mother, and Rasulullah –Sallallahu alayhi wasallam – said that Jannat is under the soles of Mother —The Majlis)
Its not that I am against doctors, but doctors like Moinuddin Ally are nausiating. It is a fact that whoever under goes this shamefull test, chances are that she will get cervical cancer after it. Same is the case with suspected breast cancer biopsy, normal healthy ladies get seriously sick once they have these biopsies. But doctors and the so called “experts” dont believe it.
May Allah Ta’ala save us from all such scary sicknesses and all sickness and such doctors, and keep all of us in His hifazat, Aameen. Alhamdolillah I read the masnoon dua of saving oneself from all dangerous bemariyan (sicknesses) after every Fardh Namaz and have been doing so for years. Duas are my only refuge and shelter. Duas for my khatimah (Maut) on Iman are requested.”
(End of the Waliah’s letter)
Even on earth in this era of corruption in which fisq, fujoor, bid’ah, kufr and papsmear obscenity predominate, there are such Waliahs who resemble Qaasiraatut Tarfi Eenun: Ka-annahunna Baidhum Maknoon. Whoever is interested, may check these Qur’aanic verses and their Tafseer – Surah As-Saaffaat, Aayats 48 and 49. This Waliah is one of them. After all, Gold and Diamonds are found in the dust.
Sister continue providing us with Naseehat. Your Naseehat will, Insha-Allah, benefit innumerable true Mu’mineen and Mu’minaat.
A Waliah (Saintly Lady) from Pakistan has the following comments, advice and prescription pertaining to the obscene papsmear satanism:
THE SISTER’S LETTER
Years ago when I was approaching menopause, I started to have very heavy bleeding so much so that I had to visit a doctor. I related my condition to her. After listening intently she suggested that I get a Papsmear Test done to rule out cancer, and that she will prescribe some medicines till the result comes. This was the first time in my life that I had heard of such a test. On hearing the details of the test, I felt so ashamed and embarrassed that I just left her room with out any prescription and a firm No. (That was the fatwa of your Imaan. Rasulullah –Sallallahu alayhi wasallam- said: “Seek a fatwa from your heart’.)
As days passed my condition worsened. I had always been friends with a Waliah, who was Dr Abdul Hai Arfi Saheb’s رحمة الله عليهMureed and of my mother’s age. My mother suggested that I call her as she knew many old authentic Hikmat nuskhay (hakeem prescriptions). So I called her and told her about my problem. She assured me that there was no need to worry and that Mo’min Women, Alhamdolillah, can never have this shameful test, and that one of her Mamoo (maternal uncle) was a Hakeem in the court of the Nawab of Bhopal pre-partition India, who had a very easy, simple and, Alhamdolillah, sure nuskha (prescription) for this problem. The remedy was to eat 2 medium sized ripe bananas on an empty stomach first thing in the morning, and 2 medium sized ripe bananas after Asr Salah when the stomach is empty. A light breakfast had to be taken forty minutes after eating the bananas and a light dinner at night after Maghrib.
She also asked me to recite Surah Fatiha morning and evening blow on water and drink the water. I dont remember how many times. (Recite seven times or three times).
As I was in so much discomfort I immediately started the Nuskha and Surah Fatiha. With each passing day, slowly and gradually, by Allah Ta’ala’s greatest Fadhl my condition improved and within about a month and a half I returned to normal with, I think, a better level of Hemoglobin as my weakness just disappeared.
Years have passed and, Alhamdolillah Thumma Alhamdolillah, I never had any problem again, nor did I ever visit any doctor. I can say from my own experience that what doctors say is all rubbish, evil and filth. I told this Nuskha (prescription) to a few ladies with this problem and even other menstrual problems. Those who ate the bananas regularly and steadfastly were Alhamdolillah cured. And Surah Fatiha is with out any doubt Surah Shifa. May Allah Ta’ala save us all from this Haram and filth and the clutches of shameless doctors who suggest such tests.
I want to add that if this Hakeemi remedy is taken seriously and regularly it works wonders. Unfortunately, ladies stick to it for just three, four days then become slack and say its not working. Some ladies took it even for problems like irregular periods and leukorreah with constancy, and their problems which the doctors said can never be treated, were Alhamdolillah cured. But it takes time at least two to three months. It’s really a wonder treatment.
(End of the Waliah’s letter)
(This letter has been reproduced verbatim. Comments in brackets are ours)
Honourable Sister, Allah Azza Wal will most certainly reward you abundantly for sharing with the Ummah your experience and for your Naseehat of Haqq. Insha-Allah, numerous Sisters will heed your advice and adopt your prescription thereby protecting their Hayaa and saving their Imaan from the destruction wrought by these ‘medical’ vultures and hoodlums. They are of the breed of Shaitaan.
Your letter is indeed an eyeopener for us all. Even the muftis have become Rubbish by not only condoning, but promoting this KUFR papsmear. For a true Mu’minah Maut is the option, not the devil’s filth and obscenity.
The bogey of ‘cervical cancer’ is a red herring – a trap of Iblees – designed by an immoral cartel of atheists for the gratification of their concupiscent instincts. How is it ever possible for a Muslim doctor to degenerate to the sub-devil level of immoral degradation to subject a Muslim female to the unspeakable, in fact unimaginable, indignity, obscenity, shamelessness and spiritual torture of this nauseating test of the devil?
These human devils with their filthy and obscene tests will give you cancer. And, if there is any reality in the ‘cervical cancer’ nonsense, the devil’s papsmear test is NEVER a solution – NEVER a remedy. Allah Ta’ala has not created the cure for His Mu’minaat Slaves in filth, obscenity and immorality. Sisters are assured that in the ultimate end shahaadat is in the pipeline, if you have to die with ‘cervical cancer’. Maut comes only at its appointed time. So do not be stampeded into filth and obscenity by the satanism of the diagnosis of these doctor agents of Iblees.
Note: The Sister whose letter we have reproduced is a genuine Waliah. Her Taqwa, Ibaadat and Baseerat are of a high calibre. She is a ‘Siddiqui’, i.e. from the Family of Hadhrat Abu Bakr (Radhiyallahu anhu).